Is Covid-19 Helping Relationships? Yes It Is!

 

It's weird to think that the Coronavirus pandemic is helpful in any way. Sitting at home waiting for lockdown rules to be lifted isn't exactly a walk in the park. From a relationship perspective, it puts a lot of pressure on couples to work through issues, too. All this and you can't get away from one another because you're housebound.

Thanks, Covid-19.

On the surface, self-isolation may cause your relationship more harm than good. However, once you delve under the surface, you'll find that it is helpful in more ways than one. 

Here's how your love life could benefit from the current situation.

Healthier Attitude

For lots of people, the lockdown has taught them not to take anything for granted. Mostly, this means you'll see what your partner means to you and what they do to make you happy daily. The effect will encourage you to fall deeper in love and never let go. Aww. 

Still, even if you realize the relationship isn't for you and need a divorce lawyer, that's not all bad. Sure, it's a traumatic time, yet continuing in an unhappy relationship is even worse. Lockdown is forcing you to take stock and make vital decisions for the sake of your future, and you'll be better off in the long-term!

Heightened Communication

Thankfully, self-isolation has made you see what you have, and you're cherishing it more now than previously. That's fantastic news, but it doesn't mean the hard work is over. Couples must communicate about the things that frustrate them to get the feelings off their chest. While lockdown is highlighting more annoying traits than before, it's also making people address them head-on.

Once you understand what you can work on and how you can be a better life partner, there will be less toxicity in the home. This healthy behavior stems from being stuck in all day, making you more open and transparent.

Bigger Spark

It's not uncommon for couples who have been together for a long time to go through the motions. This doesn't mean that you're bored of one another, not by a long shot, but the routine can get tedious. Lockdown only accelerates the tedium since you've nowhere to go and nothing to do. However, if you're creative and not willing to Netflix and chill every night, you'll figure out new ways to put the spark back into your relationship. Some couples become more adventurous in their sex life, using sex toys like a dildo, a fake pussy, and handcuffs, and expanding their sexual fantasies in the process. There is everything to gain, provided that both partners are comfortable with it.

It can be as simple as cooking a romantic dinner with the leftovers in the fridge. The only thing that counts is the thought.

More Comfort

During challenging times, it's scary to be alone and not know what the future holds. Having a significant other by your side ensures you are comfortable and don't have to fret about what happens next. Knowing that you'll walk the path together is enough. After all, if you can survive the biggest health crisis since 1918, you can get through anything!

Have you experienced any of the above during lockdown? How has your relationship prospered since the start of the pandemic?